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Mrs. Matilda Dickey (Cooper)

10 May 1810 -  22 Feb 1883


It has been our unpleasant duty of late to record the death of an unusual number of individuals who were well-known in this community. This week we announce, with much sadness, the death of Mrs. Robert Dickey, Sr., after a brief illness. Two weeks ago last Sabbath she was in her pew in the U. P. Church, apparently as well as usual. Early in the week she complained of feeling ill, but it was not until Friday that her case became alarming to her friends and physicians. Her nervous system seemed to suddenly break down, and for several days before her death, which occurred on Thursday last at 9 p.m. her powers of speech were almost wholly gone.

We are permitted to make the following extract from the funeral address of Rev. Brittain:
Mrs. Matilda Dickey was born May 1810, in County Donegal, Ireland. She was the daughter of John and Isabella Cooper, and one of a family of seven children, five sons and two daughters. Her parents were members of the Presbyterian Church, of Ireland, and her early training in the doctrines of grace bore abundant fruit in a life of consecration to her Master, who she publicly professed at the age of 16 years. Of her experience during the early years of her Christian life we have no definite record. We may properly conclude that it was in harmony with what we know of her life in the years that followed down to the very close. In company with her brother, James, she left her home and native land and came to this country in the year 1831, locating in Pittsburgh, Pa. Ten years later she was joined in this country by her parents and other members of the family. Two years after her arrival here she was married to Mr. Robert Dickey, who lives to mourn her loss, the marriage service being performed by the rev. Alexander Boyd, of the Associate Church, Pittsburgh, Pa. After spending some twelve years in Allegheny county, she came with her husband to this county, locating in Greenville in the year 1845. Her church privileges, while she remained in the city of Pittsburgh, were, first, in connection with the Associate Reformed Church, of which Rev. Joseph Kerr, of precious memory, was pastor, and subsequently under the ministry of Dr. James Rodgers, of the Associate Church, Allegheny. The services of both these eminent men of God were fragrant in her memory to the close of her life.

On removing to this place she became a member of the Associate Congregation, under the pastoral care of Dr. D. H. A. McLean, of which congregation (now U. P.) she remained a beloved and most consistent member till she was called to join the fellowship of the spirits of the just made perfect. In noting some of the prominent virtues of this remarkable life, we would mention her faith.  She lived by faith. Her faith manifested itself in a life of prayer. It was no unusual thing to find her upon her knees engaged in secret devotion. A few days before her death her daughter missed her, and thinking she had gone up stairs, went to look for her, and found her at the bottom of the stairway in secret prayer. It was her custom when troubled about anything thus to retire for communion with God. Her faith was further shown in her love for God's word. Her favorite book was an old copy of the Scriptures in large type. This volume she had used till it was almost worn out. The statutes of the Lord were her songs in the house of her pilgrimage. She "hid God's word in her heart that she might not offend against Him." His house was equally clear to her. Nothing but sickness ever kept her out of her pew. But two weeks before her death she was at the house of God, and carried home most of the sermon, reporting it to members of the family who had not heard it.

She was earnest and thoughtful in all her church work.  She will be greatly missed by the congregation of which she was so long a member. None could have a higher place in the affections of the people. At home her piety shone the brightest. Her life was given to making comfortable and happy those about her in the home. Her patience, humility and self-sacrifice were of the very highest type. She was not forgetful to "entertain strangers." Her hospitality was large and generous. She made everyone who went in and out of her home feel a desire to visit her again. For many years her house was the place of entertainment for ministers who were stopping in town, and she said "she thought it no trouble to entertain them . for their prayers brought a blessing on the home. " Among her neighbors in times of sickness or trouble she was an angel of mercy. Her charity was remarkable. It was of the kind that "covers a multitude of sins." It is the testimony of an old and intimate friend: "I have known her for thirty years and never heard her speak ill of anyone." She always said, "If we have nothing good to report of a person, let us keep silence."

Her last sickness was of short duration, and of such a character as to make it almost impossible for her to talk. This was a source of regret to the family, as she seemed to wish to say something which she could not utter. But her whole life had  spoken for her Master, and in such a way as to leave no doubt that she had made her peace with God, and was fully prepared to go hence. The few closing words of her life were full of confident hope that God was her father, Jesus her Saviour, and heaven her eternal home.

The funeral occurred on Saturday at 10 a.m., and the large number in attendance was an evidence of the great affection entertained for deceased by her neighbors. The services were conducted by rev. J. R. Brittain, her pastor, assisted by Rev. Prof. H. W. Roth, of Thiel College and Rev. C. S. Tinker, of the Baptist Church.  Rev. Brittain's address was able and appropriate, closing with a feeling and well deserved tribute to the memory of the deceased.

Source: The Record-Argus (Greenville, Pennsylvania) 01 Mar 1883, Thu., pg. 3



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